LADIES FIRST: IF YOU HAD THE OPPORTUNITY TO SPEAK TO YOUR YOUNGER SELF, TO THAT GIRL AT AGE 15, WHAT ADVICE WOULD YOU GIVE TO YOUR THEN YOUNGER SELF ABOUT SELF-LOVE AND RESPECT?
Eden: "I would tell my 15 yr. old self it's okay and that you are fine just the way you are. I would tell her to stop comparing yourself to others and tearing yourself apart. And to understand where she is in life is not the end because there's so much life to live. And even though she may feel not comfort or acceptance in her current state, that she will definitely feel it once she is able to fully accept all of herself as a person."
Ellisa: "Stay true to yourself and never play small in order to make others feel better about themselves. I would reassure her that every goal and dream you have is obtainable with self-discipline, a clear mind and an open heart. I would tell her to always protect her spirit and creativity. To always keep your trust in God."
LADIES FIRST: WHAT ACCOMPLISHMENTS ARE YOU MOST PROUD OF TO DATE?
Ellisa: "I’m most proud of starting and growing C.O.R.E because it’s such a reflection of my sister and I. It’s a platform where my creativity can flourish while making an impact. I believe that’s a powerful moment in life when your passion and talents collide in order to give back + impact your community."
Eden: "One of my proudest moments is being a Black female engineer and developing my own business with my sister."
LADIES FIRST: HOW DO YOU KEEP A HEALTHY WORK/LIFE BALANCE?
Eden: "Healthy work/life balance was hard to develop at the beginning, because you feel obligated to complete everything at the same time. However, I have learned to say 'No' to things that just do not work with my schedule and take time for myself. I learned this from my sister. Being a co-founder with my sister is a blessing because we understand each other and know what we need to give to each other to support us through our journey."
Ellisa: "Balance is key. Since both my career and C.O.R.E allows me to work from home, work can go into overload. I focus on my career doing the day and C.O.R.E in the evening. Sometimes, I’ll give myself a time to shut down and unwind. I’ve learned it’s better to create when you’re fresh sometimes than to constantly having late nights and not putting your best work out."
LADIES FIRST: CAN WOMEN IN FACT. HAVE IT ALL?
Ellisa: "Absolutely! I believe women can reach their dreams, raise a family and do anything else their heart desires. The key is letting go of the timing of when we can have it or how it will look. If you trust the timing of your life everything will fall into place."
Eden: "Women definitely can have it all. Again, everything is possible. I look forward to continue being a business woman and seeing C.O.R.E develop. I see myself being a wife and mother in the future. My mother and millions of women have shown me that it is possible to be a career women, wife, and mother."
LADIES FIRST: WHEN YOU THINK OF THE FUTURE AND THE KIND OF WORK YOU HAVE DESCRIBED WITH THE C.O.R.E MAGAZINE MOVEMENT WHAT GIVES YOU HOPE & PRIDE WITH THE FUTURE GENERATION?
Eden: "What gives me hope is when I speak with the girls and you can see how their mindsets have changed once they are exposed to the world outside of their day to day environment, and they start thinking big. They not only see their possibilities are unlimited, but understand this concept as well."
Ellisa: "The up and coming generation is proud of who they are and owning their identity. They get to grow up with more women of color in a variety of powerful positions. The power of seeing women who like you at that age reaffirms who you are and encourages you to be your true self."
LADIES FIRST: AND FOR THE MOST IMPORTANT QUESTION OF THEM ALL, WHAT DO YOU LOVE ABOUT YOURSELF?
Eden: "I honestly love that I love myself. And I have finally become comfortable in who I am and I understand me."
Ellisa: "The absolute best compliment I receive is when someone tells me I have a beautiful spirit. I literally stand there in awe! Beauty fades and knowledge is great but for someone to be able to see and feel my spirit means the world to me because it’s a spark of a genuine connection. I love that I can connect to the root of people and have an open spirit to learn who they are as an individual."
LADIES FIRST: LADIES THANK YOU SO MUCH, THAT WAS PERFECT!
Checkout the recap photos and video of C.O.R.E Magazines teen panel "Beautifully Bold"!